Having Your Dog Put To Sleep - What Actually Happens?

52 CommentsTuesday, 1 August 2017  |  D for Dog

One of the most difficult things we do as dog owners is to have our beloved dogs put to sleep, because they are suffering in some way, maybe through disability, ill health or old age. As harrowing as it is, I am always so very glad that we have the option of euthanasia, rather than letting them suffer.

Tat and Cleo

However, with the option of euthanasia comes responsibility. Are we doing the right thing? Is it too soon? Are they suffering or would they prefer to live? So many thoughts go through our minds. The option of euthanasia is a burden of responsibility as well as a blessing.

Quality of life is really what matters. This well written blog by Dr Rosie Smith gives a check list of the main aspects of quality of life, if you need any guidance. But do trust yourself to know when the time is right. You will know.

How will I know when it’s time to say goodbye?

Once you have decided that it is time, the process of euthanasia itself can be a bit of a mystery and fear of the unknown won’t help at an already harrowing time. It is not the kind of thing we feel we can discuss with others who have gone through it. Even the most peaceful euthanasia can be painful to recall. There is an injection and there is death - that is about as much as any of us know until we have experienced it.

Although this is an incredibly difficult thing for any of us to discuss, I can’t help feeling that many people would benefit from knowing beforehand exactly what to expect. The first euthanasia I experienced was definitely the worst and I think that is partly because I wasn’t sure what was going to happen. Knowledge helps us to cope. The unknown can be very scary, at a time when we are already feeling so many powerful emotions.

So here we will talk about exactly what happens and how much time the process takes, so at no stage do you have the added anxiety of not being sure what will happen next and how much time is left.

Firstly, let’s talk about going to the vet or staying at home for the euthanasia.

Home or away?

People will differ on their preferences and there is no right or wrong answer. Every dog is different and every person is different. Not all vets offer house calls so you may not even have the option of a home euthanasia. Don’t worry too much about this. Just do what you can do.

When our first dog, Boycie, was put to sleep, we had the vet come to our house. I imagined Boyce would feel more relaxed at home but in reality I think he felt worried by the strange man who suddenly appeared in the living room and rather rudely started to examine him while he was trying to sleep on my lap. For a long time afterwards I also felt incredibly sad looking at that place on the sofa, which had previously been a happy place of evening cuddles. Little things, but for us anyway, it was enough to make us decide that next time we would go to the vets – which we did.

Staying at home does dispense of that dreaded final outing and the panic of the vet visit, if you or your pet feel anxious there. It can also reduce the strain on a very sick animal, as you don’t have to transport them to the vets and put them through that stress.

But going to the vets can also have its advantages. It is a place where dogs are used to seeing a vet and being examined, so the process will be more expected for your dog. Some people may worry about doing such a sad thing in public but believe me, the receptionist or people in the waiting room will be the last thing on your mind. If you have a good vet, they will be just the right amount of sympathetic and practical and will give you plenty of time with your pet. Also, if you are letting them deal with your pet’s body afterwards, already being at the vets is not such a bad thing.

As I say, there is no right or wrong place and we will all have different reasons for either wanting our dog put to sleep at home or at the vets.

As most people will have euthanasia performed at the vets, I will talk in those terms but the actual process is the same either way.

The appointment

If this candle is lit, someone is saying goodbye

When you make the appointment, tell the receptionist that it is an appointment to have your pet put to sleep. They will give you a longer appointment time, will not ask inappropriate questions in the waiting room like “how is he today” and they will do their best to make sure the atmosphere is as respectful as possible.

I also ask if sedation is used - sometimes referred to as “two injection” euthanasia. It’s important and I will discuss this further in a moment.

If you are taking your dog home after the euthanasia, remember to take a blanket with you so you can carry them home with dignity.

At the beginning of the appointment, don’t be surprised if your vet still does all the usual things first like checking your dog over, listening to their heart and so on. If something has suddenly happened to your pet, the vet will need to make their own assessment before they agree or otherwise to the euthanasia request. Even if your pet is old or has an ongoing issue, the vet will still probably check your pet over one last time.

Once everyone agrees that euthanasia is the best course of action, your vet will start the process.

If you need to sit down, don’t be afraid to ask for a chair. But if you can, stay with your pet, at least for now, so they are comforted by your presence. People often worry that when the time comes they will go to pieces. What is more likely to happen is that you will find an inner strength. You will be strong and be there with them for this final journey. This is about making your pet’s last moments as calm and peaceful as possible, and you will be surprised that this is something you can do, for them. Talk calmly and gently to your pet, so they know all is well. If you can’t trust your voice, just be near and calm. You are doing the right thing. All is well.

Sedation

Your vet will hopefully prepare an anaesthetic or sedative injection for your dog. This is generally subcutaneous, meaning that it just has to go below the skin or maybe into the muscle and doesn’t have to go directly into a vein. It can simply go into the rump or leg, so it not so stressful or painful. This is a much more pleasant way to slip into peace. Your dog will hardly know what happened and will simply start to feel pleasantly drowsy.

You will notice that I said “Your vet will hopefully prepare an anaesthetic or sedative injection for your dog”. Some do not. Having seen it done both ways, the “two injection” method is definitely my preference. Boycie was not sedated first and he panicked as the vet pulled him about, trying to get the injection into his vein. Once the injection did go in, he was dead within seconds. It was unnecessarily harrowing, undignified and way too sudden – not the peaceful and a gentle goodbye we had hoped for. The only time a sedative may not be necessary is if the pet is already slipping into unconsciousness naturally.

dog sedation

After the sedation has been given, gently hold your dog as they begin to drift off. Their legs may start to buckle and their head may hang down as they get very sleepy, so make sure you support them without restraining them. They may react a little bit to the feelings of loss of control and may even try to get off the table or struggle a bit. Just help them to feel as calm and comfortable as possible.

After a few minutes they will become incredibly drowsy and you may like to hold them in your arms. Your vet may leave the room while you have some final alone time. Generally you have about 10-15 minutes with your dog as they go into a deep sleep. It is a precious moment.

So far your dog has only been sedated. They are still alive but fast asleep and may even snore peacefully.  They may still have a level of awareness, so continue to be calm and gentle. Hysterics won’t help your pet. Be brave. I always feel comforted by their gentle breathing and peaceful body. I have a last kiss and cuddle, thank them for their wonderful companionship and say goodbye.

You have done the most important part for your pet now. If you feel you don’t wish to be present for the actual euthanasia then tell your vet how you are feeling.

The final injection

Once your dog is fast asleep your vet will check their responses and then prepare the final injection. This one is injected into a vein so there may be a bit of searching for the vein, especially in a very ill dog. Don’t worry about your pet feeling any pain now as they are very deeply asleep.

My understanding is that this final drug is commonly a high dose (overdose) of an anaesthetic drug. Once administered, your dog will become unconscious incredibly quickly. The brain will stop functioning after just a few seconds and, because the brain works the heart and lungs, within about 20-40 seconds your dog will stop breathing and their heart will stop beating. Sometimes people worry that euthanasia works by causing their pet to have a heart attack, but this is not the case, so do not worry.

The vet will listen to their heart and check for reflexes. After a minute or two they will confirm that your pet has now passed away. Your pet’s eyes will probably be open and they may soil (this may also happen at the sedation stage), as the body is now completely relaxed. This is all normal. Don’t be alarmed.

Sometimes the passing is as quiet as a final breath, or sometimes a pet may gasp, twitch, vocalise or even move. Don’t worry, this can happen and is not unusual or anything to worry about. They are not suffering. Having witnessed this myself and being a little alarmed, I was told that it is just reflexes and electrical impulses in the body. This can be a natural part of any death.

dog paw in hand

I read a wonderful article by Adrienne Farricelli, a former veterinary hospital assistant.

Understanding Dog Pain During Euthanasia

This quote says it better than I ever could:

"Acknowledging what happens and acknowledging things that may go wrong is helpful. That way if things go well, you'll likely think "Is that it? That was very quick and peaceful!" and if things don't go very well, at least you know what may likely have happened so those last moments won't haunt you day after day as you wonder if your pet suffered. Truth is, the death of our pets is never pleasant to witness, but it's far better than suffering day after day, and most of all, our dogs will be eternally thankful for this last gift of unconditional love."

After the vet has confirmed that your pet has passed away, they can help you wrap them in the blanket, if you wish to take them home. You may be doing a home burial or taking them home for any other pets to say goodbye to. I do feel this is important. Other dogs in the household will want to know where their companion has gone, so do this if you can.

If you are doing a home burial, you might like to read Burying Your Dog at Home.

Did I do the right thing?

Euthanasia saves our beloved pets from weeks and months of unnecessary suffering. You thought it all through and did your very best for you pet and yet you may still feel guilt or worry about having had your pet put to sleep. Was it too late? Was it too soon? The chances are, it was just right. You loved your pet and you did the best you could for them. Be kind to yourself, trust your decision, know you did it with love and let any guilt go. Your beloved dog would say “thank you for caring” and that is all that matters.

Thank you so for loving me. You know I love you too,
and that’s why it’s hard to say goodbye and end this life with you.

So hold me now just one more time and let me hear you say,
because you care so much for me, you’ll let me go today.

From “May I Go” by Susan A. Jackson

I hope this has helped anyone who needed comfort and knowledge at this sad and stressful time.

To all the doggies who have passed or are about to go on this last journey - Run Free!

By Jenny Prevel

Disclaimer: Please note that these are my own personal experiences of euthanasia of my own dogs. I am not a vet and there may be other procedures or methods that I have not experienced or mentioned.

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Anne Tragett
Friday, 1 September 2017  |  14:27

Far to many people do not know about two injection euthanasia ,I know of several people who have had to listen to their pet cries as the vet looks for a vein,hopefully your very good article will help to inform them so they can tell the vet that they want the animal sedated before the final injection is given if the vet refuses, I know of some that do then as difficult as it is they have to take courage and ask for another vet


D for Dog
Friday, 1 September 2017  |  14:36

Thanks Anne and yes, I hope it helps people. The two-injection method is the main reason I wrote this. I had no idea when we had our first dog PTS. I was shocked at how much better (for want of a better word) subsequent ones were, simply because it was a different vet who did the two injection method. I really hope people have the courage to read this. It took a lot of courage to write, I don't mind saying. Personally, I would always ask for another vet if they refused to do two injections. I learnt from bitter experience.


Gwendoline Henderson
Friday, 1 September 2017  |  19:49

I have put a few dogs to sleep and it has always been the one injection method as they were near the end of their lives. I recently had to put a young dog to sleep, I had rescued it, but it had so many problems that it was attacking dogs and people rather badly. I spoke to the local dog warden and was advised that the dog should never have been rehomed. I would have to keep her tied up and muzzled for the rest of her life (she had just turned two) or put her to sleep. I took her to the vets complete with muzzle and her sedated her first (after a struggle) then when she was very drowsy he gave her the final injection and she went very quickly.


Swati Nanda
Thursday, 31 May 2018  |  20:58

THANKS a lot sir for this article. it was very difficult for me to read this. i love my pet a lot and never want to loose her.loads and loads of love dear Boycie .


Shony
Saturday, 13 June 2020  |  9:55

I have decided to put my old girl to sleep and reading this before I do has help me so much, even though I have cried all the way through. Thank you for publishing this.


Carolyn Hill
Tuesday, 3 August 2021  |  1:36

Thank you for your wonderful, calming, and informative article. Last week we had to put our sweet JoJo down due to a inoperative growth In his abdomen. He had become so bloated and sluggish in the last two weeks. And, yes, we had the questions about were we doing this too soon? Our vet was wonderful and had discussed with us about letting him go when we "needed" to rather when we were "ready" to let him go. Not to let him get to the point of suffering before we decided. When we took him in, the vet said we had chosen the right time. He did the two injection method and it was best. JoJo relaxed, fell asleep with us loving him and telling him how much we loved him and what a great boy he was. They let us have several moments of privacy with him at different times of the process. They had a blanket on the exam table and bundled him in to removed him. They made the preparations for his cremation and ashes returned to us in a wooden box.


Bill Cox
Monday, 5 July 2021  |  15:36

Thank you I did not know about the two injection my dog is very sick and I may have her to sleep hearing about the two injections helps me a lot thank you


Samantha Smith
Saturday, 16 October 2021  |  17:43

I had my dog put to sleep April 27th,infront of her brother, as was advised by fritzpatric referral. She had it done at home. She had bone cancer of the face, effected the brain and MMA.
So hard as was grieving for the dog that was left behind. They had not ever been apart, and both nearly 12.5 years old. I was told I would loose her boxing day-so I was so grateful for the extra 4 months. Dispit the extra 4 months I still feel guilty. Vets said she was in pain and could last an extra 3 weeks. This is why I feel guilty. She had been given another does of antibiotics the day before, I booked a holiday on the Monday to take her and her brother on one last holiday with me, not too far away from where I lived, yet the following day she was gone. No holiday, no proper goodbye, but her poor eye was so swollen, bloodshot, and she started bleeding when drinking, so I felt the time was right, until afterwards I then felt she had more time and I was wrong. The guilt is bad. I now help my other dog go through his health and his depression, grieving together.
This post has helped me, but I was told via the vet to wait 15 mins for sedation to kick in. During that time I popped upstairs to consol my partner who was in bits. His daughter was with kenzie and the vets. My question is, did my dog see my partner last, or although sedated, she she see me, feel my presence, my love, as her eyes were open, but just stared. I laid down on floor strokeing her, talking and looking at her eyes, eye level with me. Ben, my other dog was against her too. I hope she saw me last, its breaking my heart that I left her for those precious minutes, that it may not off been me she last saw.
Your post says sedation takes between 10-15minutes. I'm still so lost. I cry everyday, I've gone photo book mad, and don't know how to hold back my feelings from the other dog, whom has became very inseparable from me, to the extent that me going upstairs to the toilet, he starts barking and howling for me.


Jacqueline B
Tuesday, 24 October 2017  |  16:34

Reading this very informative article has brought me to tears as it has brought back the memories of having our darling Lab x Retriever aged 15 & 1/2 years put to sleep during the summer. We had the vet come to the house as our boy hated going to the vets; she came and he seemed genuinely pleased to see her and he even got out of his bed to say hello. Once she persuaded my husband that having him (the dog!) PTS was the kindest thing we could do then she set about proceeding with the 2 injection method : sedative first followed by the blue cocktail - I assumed it was potassium to stop the heart. There was no way that our darling boy was giving her his leg for her to shave in order to access a vein, so she gave him an intra-muscular injection into his flank so as not to stress him out and left us to cuddle and kiss him whilst he went off into a deep sleep. After 15 or so minutes he gave a big sigh - and for me I felt that was when he had gone - she then shaved his leg and administered the blue liquid. She checked his heart, said heíd gone then he gave a big, judderey sigh and twitched a bit and that was it; our beloved boy was no more.

Up until this point I would say having him pts at home was the kindest thing we could do and I was pleased that our vet was so respectful of both him and us but once heíd gone - and because weíd decided to have him cremated so she was taking him back to her practice- she then started to stuff him in a big bag, squashed him down like one would a sweater into a carrier bag- and then we had to carry his now squashed but still warm body to her car. That was all so undignified which is where going to the vetsí is better because one doesnít see the grim ending of oneís beloved pet. When I went to the practice a few days later to sort out the paperwork for his cremation we talked about it and she said she needed to work on that part!

A friend told us a few months before our boy was pts of the horror they had experienced at their vets when their dog was pts and how badly t traumatized them and how traumatic and endiyit was for their dog. I can only assume their vet did not sedate by any means possible their dog. So I would advise anyone planning on having their dog pts to absolutely insist on sedation being given first.


Mike
Friday, 30 March 2018  |  23:18

I recently had my 14 year old border collie put to sleep. I found your site comforting. I did feel guilty and was it to soon but she had cancer and I put her to sleep because I loved her and wanted to spare her going through the pain before it started. I will always love her.


Trish
Friday, 20 April 2018  |  4:27

My Boston Terrier Nelly who was 3 months shy of 14 and a half yrs old became really ill and when I took her to the vet they told me that she had heart failure and liver failure and didn't know how long she had to live but that she didn't look like she needed to be euthanized and that I could start treatment but that it may not help. That day she was given a b12 shot and antibiotics and I was also giving her a stool softner to try to get her to poop. A few days later we picked up the medicine for her liver and started it after 11 days with no signs of improvement we decided to euthanize her. I had read up on it and assumed she would get to shots and it would be pain free but I was wrong. I already felt bad then they made my baby jump and scream and within a few seconds she was gone. I felt even worse knowing her last thought was probably wondering why her mommy and daddy was leting someone hurt her. Worst thing I ever did. Like I said I thought she was supposed to get a seditive first.


Julie Kirby
Sunday, 6 January 2019  |  3:23

I'm so sorry for your loss. The same happened to my girl Jessie. It's been 5 years now but I will never forget it .the vet came to our home but only used the one injection. Jessie really struggled. I felt and still do that jessies last moments she was thinking we were hurting here . I did not know what to expect .I just wish the vet had given us the option to have 2 injections .best wishes from Julie


Amanda Plumb
Sunday, 6 May 2018  |  8:49

My rotti is 8 years old and in pain most of the time I want him putility down and want him sedated first.


Trish
Wednesday, 8 August 2018  |  22:27

Thank you this article has really helped and put my mind at rest! Tomorrow I take my 18 year old terrier to be put to sleep! One of the hardest decisions of my life!! Will be requesting the 2 injection method! As this is definitely the least stressful for him! My heart is already broken!


Catrina M Rumsey
Monday, 1 October 2018  |  1:05

I have a 15 year old chiwauwa mix. She is diabetic and blind. We are fighting to control the pressures in her eyes now she has developed glaucoma. We could have her eye removed but I'm struggling with putting her thru all of that. I love her dearly I've had her her whole life. I don't want to feel like I've gave up on her but I don't want to keep her here for my own selfishness.


Nancy Stuart
Tuesday, 16 October 2018  |  19:08

I sadly put my staffy to sleep last Monday the 8th . I wish I had read this arrival before hand . My heart is broken and my house donít feel like home . She had dm and was suffering for over a year and the time was right the vet also agreed I let her go with some dignity . Nothing can prepare you for letting your fur baby run free . I for one wasnít prepared for the hurt I feel and the guilt Iím holding , was it the right time ect ?! The vet did carry out the 2 step injection but Iím sad to think I wasnít given time to hold her or gently cuddle her and kiss her before they gave her the final injection . They told me they was taking her out back to put the canula in the vein . When they returned with her in there arms she was already sedated 😞 this will haunt me forever . They then administered the final injection within a minute of bringing her back in . I did how ever cuddle her and kiss her whilst she slipped away . Missing my darling girl so much


Gary Parker
Thursday, 29 November 2018  |  14:40

We had our beloved Shih Tzu, Oreo, put to sleep on November 21, 2018. We knew the time was approaching, and when he started yelling in pain throughout the night, we took him to the vet in the morning. Oreo was 18. The vet and staff were wonderful to us and Oreo. Oreo had the two step process. They allowed me to hold and comfort Oreo the entire time, while my partner was comforting me. After he was sedated, we had time alone with him, where we hugged him, kissed him goodbye, and thanked him for being our ďchildĒ. Of course, we were crying, but we knew we could not be selfish. When the vet came back in, she asked if we were ready. We were. She administered the drug, and Oreo passed while resting in my lap. The vet then left to give us time to grieve with Oreo. When we were ready to go, we pushed a buzzer. The vet came in and gently took Oreo from me and promised to take care of Oreoís remains with the highest of dignity and honor. She then told us we could leave through a side door, so we would not have to go past the lobby or other pets. We received a card yesterday from her, expressing her condolences for our loss. Our veterinarian is truly the tops and gets its! She made a difficult day a little bit easier for us.


Crystal Poeschel
Wednesday, 12 May 2021  |  0:59

I Am So Sorry For Your Loss Of Oreo , I Take It You Had Her Cremated And You Ordered A Special Urn For Her And That Your Vet Who Was Really Nice Did It For You !


Betty Newton
Wednesday, 7 July 2021  |  18:37

My beautiful 15 yr old cocker spaniel Dylan had to be put to sleep last year as he had liver and kidney failure. He was a gentle old man with the most emphatic eyes and dearly loved. Due to Covid Dylan was sedated and we were not allowed to stay for the final injection. However, he was asleep from the sedation and given assurances he would wake up. We had a lovely card from the vet afterwards and Dylanís ashes are in a lovely wooden box with his name on with an appropriate message. The box is on a cabinet at the side of my bed where he slept. He was a clever and gentle old man who locals nicknamed him Ďgentle Dylaní. I donít think Iíll ever get over losing him. Taken on an unwanted puppy in his memory as he loved puppies. I donít believe I will fully get over his loss RIP Ďgentle Dylaní.


Joni Thompson
Wednesday, 26 December 2018  |  4:24

Had to put my pit bull down 2 months ago, he was 13 & never harmed anything. But it was a bad experience for me. First all they muzzled him, they didn't sedate him they just held him down while he struggled not knowing what was happening. Breaks my heart when I think about him looking at me like what are they doibg to me mama.


Dave
Thursday, 27 August 2020  |  22:56

Condolences, and i have been in that horrible position several times. It never gets any easier.


Deb
Wednesday, 22 May 2019  |  14:06

We just put our 12 year old lab down. She had 2 injections. The sedative did not relax her the way we all thought it would. In our case her whole body started to shake. She kept looking left then right like she was seeing things! We spoke calmly to her trying to calm her. My husband has put 3 dogs downprior to this and never did he see this kind of reaction before in the other dogs. Vet came in and saw her so said she could have had a bad reaction because she was on Rymadel and Tramadal before she came in and maybe those drugs interacted with the sedative drug. I felt horrible at the time but felt it was good we were there to talk to her during this 10 15 minutes. The vet gave her more sedative then she quickly came around to her front paw and gave her the heart stopping drug. She was gone in 30 seconds. I felt bad she had this reaction to the sedative but just like people some react different to meds. Thats why its best to be with your pet so they can hear your voice and feel comfort in you being there with them.


Pauline
Friday, 8 October 2021  |  3:16

I put my black lab down after 15 years and 3 months. It has haunted me ever since. I went ba k in the room after his injection. His heD rested on my lap
The vet told me he had an accident and peed on his blanket we had brought in for the procedure. He was salivating on my leg..his face looking at me. I was horrified. My husband said hes not gone I can feel his heart beating. We called the vet and she said he should be. She gave him a second dose reluctantly
I was and still to this day so upset. I wailed for weeks. I thought it would be a peaceful letting go but it was not. I'll never get over it. 5 weeks later I got a golden retriever girl. Not to take his place. I coulnt do without his presence. She is my angel who saved me from not wanting to live after what happened.


Val Davies
Tuesday, 4 June 2019  |  6:23

My German Shepard Bella have cancel which the vet can't do anything for her. It in her month and she loses a lot of blood when she a sleep, but in the day she seems ok. She have pain killing staff. I love her so much but don't know if the time is right for her to go .


D for Dog
Thursday, 18 July 2019  |  9:19

I'm so sorry to hear that Val. We also had a dog with mouth cancer... in his tongue. You will know when the time is right.... you will just know. Take care x


Aniyah
Wednesday, 17 July 2019  |  22:44

Hi. My dog will be put to sleep in 8 days. He is no longer able to walk and it saddens me to see him suffer. His name is Lucas, keep him in your prayers please. Also, how do I cope with his death?


D for Dog
Thursday, 18 July 2019  |  9:15

Just one day at a time sweetie. Know that you did the best thing for him and that you shared great love and great times. I was a mess when my Berkeley died and a friend said to me "Would Berks want to see you this upset" and the answer was of course no. That really helped me, so I am passing that on. It is important to cry and grieve but also to remember and smile. Take care x


Jas
Sunday, 10 November 2019  |  0:03

Comforting site and lovely words. I feel more at peace now. We had our 13 year old beautiful Spaniel euthanized this week. She slept peacefully with the sedative but gasped a few times after the final injection. The vet did say it was just reflexes and she had passed within seconds of the injection. This has reassured me


Carol
Tuesday, 3 December 2019  |  13:09

We have a 15 year old parson Russel Terrier, she used to love going on long walks and would spend all day playing with her ball. Now she only wants to go for small walks, sleeps most of the day. But she has started to get really aggressive, yesterday I went to move her off my bed and she lunged at my face.... I needed 12 stitches. We have decided that we need to have her pts. Itís the right thing to do but why do I feel so bad and that I am betraying the little lady who has given us so many happy memories x


Peter Rigby
Saturday, 13 June 2020  |  21:18

We had to euthanise our dear pet Labrador today and reading your article has brought me some comfort after a very tearful and traumatic day -thank yoy


Kim Yates
Sunday, 26 July 2020  |  22:58

I had my little Yorkshire terrier..presley who was 14 yrs old put to sleep two days ago..he had a lot of medical issues wrong with him..and he had doggy dementia..his cognitive dysfunction deteriorated..and he was blind and deaf but since Iíve ended his pain and suffering I so feel guilty due to hoping I made the right decision...of putting my darling to sleep...Itís so heartbreaking..Iím asking myself questions.. did he feel pain..did he know what was happening...this hurts me so deeply but I try and think of the good and happy times with him he was the bestest companion...but I need to move pass this guilt, and accept his passing...t.y for this beautiful site...it gave me some reassurance..


D for Dog
Monday, 27 July 2020  |  9:12

Big hugs to you Kim. Please don't beat yourself up. It is normal to feel that way when you love them. In my experience, no he didn't feel pain and no, he didn't know what was happening. All he would have felt is your love. You did what you did because you love him and you put him and his needs first so you 100% did the right thing for him and he would say thank you xxx


Lynn Folwell
Sunday, 2 August 2020  |  13:22

we lost our dog (chester)3days before his 17th birthday 6 weeks agowe are devastated


Buyisile
Monday, 17 August 2020  |  20:09

Hugs to everyone who lost their beloved companions. I had to put my Swiss Shepherd (Cody) to sleep today. The hardest experience ever, a part of me feels guilty. I tried everything but his health had deteriorated and he wasnít eating anymore unless forced. Seeing him take his last breathe is an image engraved on my mind forever. He loved me and I loved him dearly. I had to put him first then myself and my heart break. Forever in my Heart Cody💞


Heather
Friday, 12 February 2021  |  10:41

I took my dog to the vets yesterday he was suffering , the vet said it was time to let him go. He had Cancer, Heart Failure and Cushing. The vet tried to put an injection in his legs but the veins had collapsed my dog was so stressed he started screaming that's how I can best describe it. Then the vet put an injection direct in to his tummy Harvey was screaming they had to rush him into theatre, they gave him gas and air to settle him they injected him straight in the heart. I have never heard an animal in my life scream the way he did. I know I did the right thin its just watching him have to go through that so stressed just wanted him to go peacefully.


D for Dog
Friday, 12 February 2021  |  10:52

Oh Heather, my heart breaks for you. What a horrific thing to go through. Yes, you did the right thing. It is going to be hard but try to put those last moments out of your mind but try to focus on the great times you had together. Take care x


J Rosewell
Tuesday, 16 February 2021  |  0:35

Today we put ourPeanut to sleep. The vet explained the two injection method. The sedative actually was all it took. No second injection necessary. She became very ill over a week or so. It was the most merciful thing to do. She was a loving loyal pet. I felt her slip away gently.
The cruel thing is to let them suffer endlessly.


D for Dog
Tuesday, 16 February 2021  |  8:49

Take care. Run free Peanut x


Victoria
Tuesday, 23 March 2021  |  13:48

I made the difficult decision to put my dog to sleep on Saturday. He was the love of my life and my soul mate. I asked for him to be heavily sedated and sat with Digby in my arms for 15 minutes whilst he fell in to a deep sleep. The vet then told me that the time had come for the final injection and i guess i was just really scared. I did not feel like I could cope with witnessing his death and he was deeply asleep. I gave him a final kiss on his head and told him I loved him. I thought it would good that both of our final thoughts would be us having a lovely relaxed cuddle. However, i have not stopped feeling guilty ever since that I was not there with him for the last moments of his life. If i could turn back time i would have made a different decision. It is really, really upsetting me and I am worried that I will always feel this way. Every post on social media says i did the wrong thing which is making it worse. If anyone can provide me with some reassurance I would be very appreciative because i don't know how to move past this.


D for Dog
Tuesday, 23 March 2021  |  13:57

So sorry for your loss, Victoria. Please don't feel guilty or feel that you did the wrong thing. You were there for the sedation and you were brave and true to your best friend at the most crucial moment, as he fell asleep. That is the time when they need their loved one and you were there. That was perfect and how it should be. After the sedation has fully taken affect they do not know who is there or what is happening, so please don't worry about that bit. Let it go, be kind to yourself and try to have happy thoughts. He would not want you to feel so guilty and there is no reason to. He would say thank you x


Victoria
Tuesday, 23 March 2021  |  15:21

Thank you so, so much. That means the world to me. I loved Digby so much and to think that I was there at the critical moment brings me great comfort .x


D for Dog
Tuesday, 23 March 2021  |  15:27

Awww, you are welcome. You did the right thing and you were brave so please donít worry. We just had our terrier Spadge put to sleep last Friday so I know all the kind of thoughts that go through the mind afterwards. I am glad my reply helped you and I really hope you can move on now from that feeling of guilt. He really would say thank you Mummy x


Carolyn
Thursday, 1 April 2021  |  20:09

Thank you for this thread. We had our darling 12 year old westie Olly put to sleep yesterday after chronic skin issues on his front paws with bacterial infections,, the vets had suggested amputation but because both his back paws had had cruciate ligament surgery, this would have made him totally immobile. He could barely walk, mainly hopped and also had suspected cushings disease. We tried a specialist dermatologist for one last try but when he stopped wanting to play and couldnít handle his bones I knew we had to let him go.

His original appointment was for today, but on Tuesday night he slept on the concrete floor outside and then spent most of the morning under the car. We moved his appointment until 4pm. We took him to his favourite walk and then to his appt. When we arrived the vet, not his usual bet, asked if we were sure we didnít want to opt for amputation, but we couldnít put the little fellow through any more.

The vet then took Olly and I asked foe him to be sedated, he was gone about 5 minutes and then hopped back in with the line in place. The vet said he hasnít need to be sedated. I was so upset I thought that was a good sign, but then she started administering the dose while he buried his face in me and about 5 seconds in he keeled over, he was gone. I feel so heartbroken that we missed our chance to say a proper goodbye and Iím in total shock that he went from standing to drop down dead so fast before we knew what was happening.

Please please insist on sedation, Iím not only grieving for my beautiful boy, I also feel haunted that we never had the relaxed and peaceful goodbye that we wanted and he deserved. My heart breaks.


D for Dog
Friday, 2 April 2021  |  11:02

Awww, Carolyn, this is heartbreaking to read. Whilst I know exactly what you mean and the vet definitely miss-communicated what was happening next... please try not to dwell. The more you play those last moment over in your head, the more they will keep coming back to haunt you. Banish them. Those last few moments were not important in the grand scheme of his wonderful life with you and he didn't know. It was a peaceful if rather fast death. Even with sedation, they go quickly and it is always a shock. Let those last moments go. It takes effort but he would not want that last bit to be playing on your mind x


Emma Arthur
Monday, 5 April 2021  |  17:43

Thank you for this post. Our vet Daisy has been brilliant, I feel this post is very helpful too. My 13 years and 9 month old dalmatian Kody is being euthanised on Mon12th x We have managed with meds his spinal nerve injury, canine dementia and now we believe cancer also and my son and I know the time has come x I will be right by his side till his end as he's been beside me his whole life xx


Tracey
Saturday, 31 July 2021  |  10:02

My little dog was Pts yesterday. I asked the vet in advance for some sedatives for her so she would not know what was going on when we made the final journey. I gave her three tablets with cheese and sausage which she thoroughly enjoyed. Then after about 25 mins she was relaxed and sleepy. The vet was great. They put in the cannula and then called me in. She was happily sitting on the table but very calm and relaxed and didnít really know what was going on. I held her as the injection was administered and within seconds she was gone. The vet then left me alone with her to say goodbye. I am fortunate to have a pet crematorium nearby so I bought her home to say goodbye to the other dogs ( I feel this is important for them) and today she will be cremated.
If you are at that point where you know it is time then donít be afraid to speak to the vet. Iím so glad Sylvie had the sedation at home with me before taking her in the car.


Denise Longley
Thursday, 5 August 2021  |  21:44

Thank you. I needed this. I had my elderly cat put to sleep on Monday unfortunately, she was really suffering with kidney disease and it was her time but I've been feeling incredibly guilty, wondering if it was stressful or painful for her etc. I think the truth is, it was the two injection method, it was on our bed, I think I'm thinking it wasn't peaceful but it totally was for her except a very brief bit of nausea just after the sedative which is common. Thank you for this. It's helped me understand more and be a bit less harsh on myself. Thank you.


Satch
Sunday, 8 August 2021  |  11:50

Thank you so much for this article. Iíve been in tears reading it. I have two old pets and I need to face up to whatís to come. Iím dreading it but I now definitely know to look for a vets that will do the 2 step injection when their times come. I just hope itís a long time yet. . Xx


Margaret Yates
Friday, 3 September 2021  |  19:38

My 10 year old Chocolate lab was put to sleep 6 years ago, the vet only used the fatal injection, my poor baby was in so much distress as the vet constantly searched for the vein, my beautiful Maddie cried and struggles, as I held her I could feel her trying to break away from me, she was so frightened.. After 3 attempts she decided to sedate her, she then fell asleep after a 5 or 10 minutes, still crying constantly.. The vet then injected her for the last time and Maddie died in my arms, her passing was not peaceful, it was terrifying and painful and left me in floods of tears , something that will be with me forever.. 4 weeks ago my beautiful Beagle Boy Buster was put to sleep at home, he was only 6 years old, he had liver and spleen cancer, As he lay on his bed at home with my husband and i holding him the vet sedated him, he wasn't too keen on the injection but it was over in seconds, we then had 10-15 minutes with him as he fell asleep, it was a very precious time, he was then given the final injection and he slipped away very peacefully in comfort and at home in my arms.. I still grieve for my Maddie and now losing my Buster has broken my heart again but I feel so much better knowing that he fell asleep so peacefully without the fear and distress felt by my poor girl.. I have other dogs and if they should need to be euthanized I will insist on sedation before the final fatal injection..


Roz
Saturday, 9 October 2021  |  19:07

Thank you that helped me a lot I've just lost my 112 year old cavalier king Charles, totally heartbroken..😥


Jeanette
Friday, 15 October 2021  |  11:13

My beautiful 10 1/2 year old sheltie Jinxy has cancer and I know her end is near I have put to sleep my beloved Rocky years ago he was 13 and have had to put my three cats too it stays with you forever I am not looking forward to saying goodbye to my girl she will always be in my heart her brother and nephew will be with me I have them to comfort me they are all my life I love them dearly you do mourn for a very long time itís not easy . I definitely will ask my vet bout the two shot method I never knew that.


Marie Morgan
Monday, 18 October 2021  |  13:44

I just put my beloved 15 year old Cavapoo down yesterday and I am totally devastated.She had been having major breathing problems and panting continuously.They first took her in the back to insert a catheter in her leg.They brought her to me and I held her while they gave the sedative.A few minutes later they gave the final medicine.It was all very peaceful and quick but I am worried that inserting the catheter was traumatic for her.They gave her oxygen while they did it but of course I am second guessing everything.Did I do the right thing?Could I have waited longer?My Callie had a wonderful life and she was my heart and soul.I donít know how I am going to get through this.

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